Yet despite all the problems it could have brought, Stefan should have been honest with Elena and told her the truth about Katherine and that she looked exactly like Elena. I have never been a fan of Damon and Elena. Honestly, wait, no, Katherine was BETTER than Elena with no humanity! A world controlled by Giants that have been set by the Gods to bring order to planet Earth. The bottom line is that I am completely ridiculous to even put this much thought and feeling into a fictional tv show? I love Katherine and her bad self though. He is the one sibling who really lives by the oath always and forever and has one of thee most intense moral codes in vampire history, he wouldnt allow any of his siblings to actually die from his venom, but he would use it to keep them in line in the most desperate of situations. After Carolines dad died. Spike and Damon are also incredibly similar, however at the very least, Spike, who claims to love Buffy, actually chooses to get his soul back and become good for the woman he loves, whereas Damon tells Elena to just accept him for all his murderous glory, and she obeys, which seems counterintuitive to her good nature. Ive stopped watching vampire diaries and just watch the originals now. Damon intentional psychopath who kills people whenever hes pissed off She also needs to make up her bloody mind! Katherine is all kinds of fun. Oh I thought I was about to explode when all my friends were on the defend Elena train. This response reminds me what a soap opera this show is. All of them are. He gets shot in the chest (TWICE!). she judges Rebekah for hurting her family. Buffy saved the world and died to save it WITHOUT whining about it. like every single character that is involved with Elena. . Have a very great day! Souls are intricate and near-incomprehensible things, especially the immortal ones. I truly miss the 90s when it comes to female characters in vampire-themed TV. At no point in that arc did Damon compel her for sex or force her to have sex with him against her will. This is a problem because: A) its bad writing and shows that the author/writers are insecure about their character and their actions that they need to have someone cool or an authority comment on how great the heroine is without showing her DOING the talked up characteristic; and B) more often than not, most talked up characters (in the positive, want to make them into role models way) dont live up to the hype of how nice or compassionate they are and SHOW that they might just be the opposite. 1) For months during season 1, Damon compelled Caroline into being his blood bag, minion, and sex-toy. The fact that she even WANTED to try and become better says a lot. Frankly Ive never loved a show and found the main character annoyimg at the same timewhenever that did happen, I just stopprd watching the show overall. Lol is all about her just gets to much the day I realize this was when she asked Stefan in season 4 episode 11 what is he doing with Rebbeka who tried to kill her and Stefan replies Damon tried to kill Jeremy twice and you still live him haha seriously is to much all about her constantly even if every body dies because of her and you still thinks its alright???? But she slept with Klaus who is by far the most abusive, murderous, cold-hearted asshole on the face of the earth, whose list of evil deeds far outweighs Damons actions. Jade Forbes, slightly manic older sister of Caroline comes back to Mystic Falls after moving out 5 years ago. 6) Damon is just as bad, worse even than Klaus. The thing about ENFPs is when we like someone, we purposefully ignore all their faults. I dont know how anyone can defend Elena. Yes, his thirst for revenge made him lose the girl but can you blame him? Vampire Diaries - Rated: T - English - Romance/Supernatural - Chapters: 22 - Words: 24,024 . Everything had been perfect. Alas, I used to like Elena and now I cant stand the sight of her. If his son is eager to avoid his wrath at all costs, then Mikael would have to settle to the next best thing he's got. Just found your blog entry and I totally agree with everything! The Original was about to start when Tatiania jumped on him with a block of wood and pulled into his heart. . Shes a selfish self centered everything is all about me and what I want and my feelings annoying twit! Of course Stefan was no angel but Caroline was abused and manipulated by Damon. Thats pretty much when emotionally, I divorced the series. I know right! i dont get how damon, stefan and matt never saw how self-centered and bitchy everything she did was. Geez! Nadia Petrova (Bulgarian: ) was a major recurring character of The Vampire Diaries. But if youve said there are some good vampires, thats a pretty flimsy excuse to have her become so loathsome. Moron who decides destroying the world is a good idea, hell no and hes stopping people from doing that. (Although he has too much faith in people. And why would anyone ask her to keep any secrets? Should her presence have an effect in the first place, considering how important and defined is the steady and already written path of time? Time to take the show off air. Ugh such ridiuclousness TVD has come to. As you develop, these will become easier to manage, but make no mistake: you will never emote the way you did three days ago.. I felt pity for her when she got dragged into the whole mess of vampires, werevolves, witches and hybrids and hoped for a bit of happiness in her life, but as soon as she turned into a vampire I started to hate her. Klaus (novel) | The Vampire Diaries Wiki | Fandom Very interesting ideas! when he learns that Damon will die, if he uses the dagger. That tells me that Elena sees them as people because she cares about them. So many good things ruined. I like what the show did in a lot of ways, but not with Elena. Like Cant she for once protect herself! ugh, elena and her b*tchy needs. They live inside us, and sometimes, they win" - Stephen King.Katherine flees with Elena's prone body after breaking the hybrid curse and nobody has seen them since. Though this is understandable for a little while, it went on for far too long. "Monsters are real, and ghosts are real too. thank you all for letting me rant about how much I hate her. The way Bonnie treat caroline in season two is kinda normal for a teenage girl. ""I made a promise""Yes, one to me and one to them. Yes its selfless but you have to know when youre pushing too far. "Are you sure you're okay?" Damon asked. When her prayer is answered and she's sent into the past, how will her presence affect the events taking place? Caroline. also, when any of them turn their humanity off its wicked annoying. As much as i love Stefan, he is so stupid. I mean Nina Dobrev does a really good job playing two characters and I love Katherine. i wish the show centered on caroline. I just didnt really want to root for the characters anymore. Never gonna happen. I dont know about myself, but judging Elena by the TVD in-universe, there have been others who have dealt with their lots better than her. Yes, Elena has sadly become redundant as has the plot. I watch only for the twists and because my ex forced ne too. When you create a love triangle in a show, you are forever running the risk of upsetting half your fan base at any given time which, to me, is stupid. Yeah I have read ALL of them. Although most of Nadia's life is unknown, she revealed that she had spent the last 500 years searching for her mother; it also wasn't . *gag*, Twilight is crap, but its still better than THIS crap. Season 6 has been actually pretty promising to me, much better than seasons 4 and 5. Of course theres going to be a backlash. The Vampire Diaries - Damon and Bonnie Caroline and Klaus BTW Klaus is Hot with a capital H Elijah and Katherine Stefan and Elena The Original Family Ultimate Vampire Diaries Pairings. Good grief! Before anyone says its not rape, she went after him the first time, YES, THE FIRST TIME! Of course they took him away from her cause nothing good ever happens to bonnie. Which isnt fair to anyone! On the plus side, it did provoke a Buffy marathon at my house. I feel the exact same way. Its a petty reason to betray your friends trust and kill their family member. The idea that Elena has dated/slept with 2 brothers is GROSS on all levels. sorry. Pretty much, just completely screw Elena. Elena didnt even apologize for unknowingly asking Sheila to sacrifice herself for the Salvatores. Either Elenas life matters and so do those of other vampires or shes now a vampire and shes better off as dead as those in Kols line. I hope to make to season 8. Grief is a natural process that cannot be avoided. ..i actually cried when he died!! She is so annoying, judgmental and whiny. Scare the crap out of me. So, its okay to do something bad if someone does something bad to you? i agree. I like Katherine because she doesnt try to act all high and mighty and pretend shes something shes not. His heart would have stopped beating as Jeremy told him that Katherine compelled Jenna to stab herself. her character is a typical brain dead teenager. I thought only I could see how toxic she is to everyone around her. How could I have liked her so much in the beginning and I rewatch it and still do in the beginning. The Bamon dynamic is fun to watch, and Bonnie needs a good friend like Damon. No one on the show is good. Even Caroline has commited mass murder. Happiness is euphoria, anger is rage. It confuses me. What I do have a problem with is selfishness, and she has it in spades. Now, TVD has unfortunately become the delena diaries. Turning Vicky? Any threat to Elena is a threat to all Mikaelsons, and never has it been said that a Mikaelson doesn't protect their own. Then I started VD. =P. She doesnt want any more secrets or lies, but she lies and keeps secrets from her family, and she calls it protecting thembitch really? Caroline and Damon had sex and while they were in the middle of it, he started to feed on her and she got scared. First Elijah and then Stefan. Which will you keep and which will you break? Meanwhile, I already knew I wouldnt care much for Delena or anything Damon because while I can enjoy an anti-villain, rape (attempted or successful) is the one line I dont tolerate (hence why I never liked Tyler, he tried to rape Vicky when she kept on saying no and only stopped when Jeremy surprised him). They had lost a bit too much of their morality? Katherine refuses for a surprising reason. They were first seen interacting during The Last Dance in Season Two while Klaus was possessing Alaric Saltzman 's body. He attacked her and her brother and he wont quit trying to off them both so they killed him. If they want Damon and Elena to be together then just do it already! And some people (less cynical than I) take Elijahs view, and believe that the definition of broken means that something can be fixed. She never makes amends, or apologizes, and she has an aura of self-perfection? Communicating with her friends without putting her foot in her mouth is one of her flaws. I just dont understand? He deserved a chance at happiness. Enzo and bonnies love story was the most romantic and cutest thing I ever seen! Characters like him and Klaus you expect to do things you disagree with. She was scared. Basically, theyre there for you at your worst. But then, here was Rebekah, who wanted to be mortal than anything. Oh, and while youre at it, why not try and help Stefan get his memory back by acting out all YOUR important moments with him, instead of, you know, taking him around Mystic Falls and talking about all HIS important moments? I agree so glad they got rid of her could have done without her after a season or 2. Where do you get this crap? Suddenly hes not her soulmate anymore? She was powerful. (There was 100% nasty horrible physical abuse, the bites and bruises all over her) *NO ONE is allowed to touch you, especially intimately, without your clear-minded consent. She really needs a raincheck in retrospect, she deserves lesser than Stefan and Damon (and Matt kinda). Caroline has always been my favorite. Again, thats just straight up nonsense. Id rather them two be together than him and elena! Yet somehow, in spite of sending numerous texts and e-mails in which Bonnie never actually physically calls her back, Elena doesnt concern herself with Bonnie until she needs something from herfor Bonnie to come back and heal Stefans amnesia. Thats how bad she was! Elena has sacrificed herself too but she isnt in control of what others do, she wouldve died for Bonnies mom, she didnt want that. I dont think Caroline was a hypocrite for sleeping with Klaus. In other words, the MF gang jumpstarted a lot of calamities for a cure that none of the nominal heroes used. Its like the writers looked up abusive boyfriend and wrote Klaus. Shes not meant to be perfect. Anyways the main point Im going to make is that this is a TV show and you are all hating on a character when you should be hating the writing, they made the character act that way be that way not do whatever it was you wanted them to do. Especially when they try to kill of the main/side characters, it doesnt break my heart to see them die when death isnt really a huge problem for them. The Alpha had played her body like a piano. Someone does need to put her in her place! She disliked the vampire life and longed to become human. Emotions are a vital part of your personality. Im watching this on Netflix for the first time. Im more of a skeptic.). "Hmm." and how everyone has to die just so she can be freed i.e. You can find out more about her passion projects at www.charitysplace.com. Ive disliked her since season 2 during her sacrifice myself to Klaus phase to protect her family and friends. I pressed pause during episode 5 to search the internet just to see if I am the only one that is on the verge of hating her. Thats the big problem with Elenas selfishness. I am totally on the hate train when it comes to one Elena Gilbert. Katherine Pierce would be out of their lives for good. (I actually have the most silly reason to dislike Elena.), I dislike Elena because everyone in the series love her. That is not love. * Way to be a friend, Elena. He wasn't sure what kind of reaction he'd get from Elena. He was madly in love with her once, but hated her when he turned into a vampire. When i was watching the show, i had kept wishing for the antagonists ( kol, rebekah, elijah, klaus, etc) to win. ", " . Same here with the Delena-Issues. . You were doing just fine with your argument until you made it a personal attack against me, instead of sticking to the facts. So crap yeah if sorry a tough thing for me, I need to skip ahead, getting nauseated literally. And like you said Katherine is a good person next to her. The human Elena cared about everyone! That was so deserved. Elena only has her memories with Stefan. her brother), and most of Elenas circle of comfort dislikes her. Idk why I guess they have some kind of magical attraction no can resist .its bullshit!! Damon compelled on occasions, but never gave her a blanket compulsion. Did she go to her house and do something? Maybe the world is partly upside down because of things like making serial killers the Good Guys. Had to sit through my burning rage of elena!! I just hoped hed kill Elena, too. There are vampires that have done good things. Its true I like Elena in the first couple seasons then when she became a vampire she was very annoying how she fell in with Damon and that shes not that girl anymore and how your feelings just change and just because youre a vampire now she is just like Catherine after she just slept with Damon like that right after you break up with Stefan youre. Shes such a little moody brat. I t socks and the writers messed up royally. . "Elena and Katherine are looking through old Petrova diaries, and come across the diary of none other than Katherine's daughter." . Just tell me where you are, I am coming to get you.' 'No no, listen, I took care of it. I think in the end no Salvatore brother should get Elena because if you look at it from a close point of view she really wasnt worth it. So, if you want to like Elena, its necessary to only watch the first two/maybe three seasons, so you can shrug off the moments that could only be explained by selfish motivations. Now on the other hand Bonnie lost a grandmother, her mother was turned, father was killed. I also didnt like how to show kinda skipped over to fact that potentially thousands of vampires just dropped dead. What is wrong with me. The Strengh within me Chapter 1: Shattered, a vampire - FanFiction 100% agree. Loved season 1 and 2. Klaus is HOT and treats Caroline like a queen. Heck, the female vampire huntress (oh fudge, that name makes me cranky too! Or Alarick And actually when Elena and Caroline were on the stairs in Carolines house it was strange. Yet she had absolutely NO PROBLEM murdering an Original, and by extension THOUSANDS of others, rather than a few dozen, for literally no reason other than,I want this cure! Im sorry but the way Caroline was treated in season 2 pales in comparison to the shit Bonnie deals with. I remember they had very different personalities there (wasnt Bonnie a redhead, too?) 2) Elena was making friends with Damon by mid-season 1. She was the most stable one in the show, except for when she switched her humanity off, and she is the main character. In the books, Angels are good, hearted creatures who serve their lord. And Caroline never made any of her friends hang out with Klaus and accept him as a caveat to her friendship, so shes still being even more courteous than Elena. I agree with you. Season 2 | Rose: Stefan apologizes to Damon for forcing him to complete his transition & explains the reason of why he did it. Only difference is that Spike went to Buffy (who DID care that the world would continue to turn around the Sun tomorrow), Kol instead tried to dissuade Damon and Elena instead of the real reasonable people of the group. So, Im super late guys! Considering that if Alexander had been equipped with a White Oak stake instead of the daggers, the entire Original family would have died instead of been in a comma (minus Klaus). , I prefer Bonnie than Elena. Elena Gilbert | The Vampire Diaries Wiki | Fandom Elena is not just annoying, she is a really dumb and selfish character (its ok to her date a vampire and even delay a plan because he want to help her so called bf , but when her brother meets Anna on ghost world episode she was full of herself dictating what is right or wrong). She thinks every problem should be fixed on her say. Since Damon used Compulsion on Caroline (which removes her ability to say no, to act in any way other than how he wants her to act, and to follow his orders), she was incapable of giving full consent to a sexual relationship under legal terms, that constitutes his treatment of her as rape, the same as the law would regard an intoxicated and/or date-rape-drugged person incapable of giving consent. Interesting accusations against Elena! When she put Caroline through so much, and then refused to apologize or even talk about it, because her own feelings were worth more than those of her friends? Im on the second season and Elena is getting on my nerves! and what makes it so twisted is everyone ignores how selfish she is. I want the old Elena back to vampirism has changed Elena for the worst. i love elija. Only they know what that truly means. Im thankful for the other characters because some of these scenes are difficult to watch with her in them. Its ridiculous how she acts all of a sudden and thats unfair to Stefan. They did not think it through like we have, and maybe I am giving them too much leeway here, but I hope I am right. The hybrids and humans compelled to make spectacle in MF? -Thank You for reading is you did. She always think about herself and keep blaming others when her family were in danger. Yes, he craves family and love, but the horrible thing about Klaus is he could have that love and family if he wasnt so hell-bent on controlling all of them. The end of season 1 and the beginning of season 2 really sparked the dislike I have of her. So I havent been there for the last few episodes, in which I hear they killed off one of the trio ( probably temporarily, knowing this shows tendency to act like a daytime soap opera). If all vampires are monsters whose lives are not valid and we should not care what happens to them, then by that same logic Elenas life does not matter nor should we care if she lives or dies (if anything, we should be rooting for her demise). Thats the way the show should end. I can go forever about her. Klaus actions are unforgivable in my eyes, so you wont find any Klaus Apologetics on my blog but I do agree that people (including Elena, as a character) are too quick to dismiss murderous, selfish behavior in this case, because its Romantic. (Actually, they screwed over him and Hayley in the final season, so I pretend it doesnt exist. Elena is a selfish brat. Everyone wants to make sure shes fine but cant she just protect herself one freaking time. even though Elena actually killed her brother, Kol and stabbed her in the back and daggered Elijah. Damon and Stefan are the ones calling her selfless and caring but thats only because they think the sun shines out of her backside. The first time they have direct interaction was The Reckoning. Just curious What do you think about the spinoff the originals. that is quite messed up and disturbing in my mind. Season 4 | Growing Pains: Stefan put Elenas life, before his. The thing I really disliked was when she wanted to brag about being with Damon in front of Caroline and Bonnie, even though it had only been a short time since she and Stefan broke up and she knew how they felt about Damon. Shes not okay with Stefan dating anyone except her, even though shes with Damon. And the way shes hanging around and flirting with this new guy at college is irritating too. They care about EVERYONE, not just their little inner circle of friends. If they bring back Kol for The Originals, I will be a happy girl. For example when something happened with Katherine and Stefan, she really said well she literally just killed me (something like that) while not thinking about others than herself. Kill or Be Killed Chapter 1, a vampire diaries fanfic | FanFiction Change), You are commenting using your Facebook account. (I DON'T OWN THE VAMPIRE DIARIES, ALL RIGHTS GO TO THE RESPECTIVE OWNERS. Sounds about right, Granted a majority of characters on the show are selfish, granted Damon and Katherine are quite upfront about it, Damon is a sadist and Katherine is narcissistic but what makes them better than Elena is that they admit it, even Caroline admits shes selfish. I never had an interest in TVD because it looked like a replica of the Twilight Series, though this last month, I decided to binge watch the seasons on Netflix, binge The Originals too, and give it all a try. tip: lex m/m (mature OR explicit). I DONT EVEN KNOW IF I CAN CONTINUE TO WATCH THE REST OF THE SEASONS. People and specially elena keep judging damon as a bastard in all seasons thats so weird. Theyve all lost so much, so I think what Ive tried to do is simply put myself into their shoes and honestly consider if I would be acting any better than them. Damon is not a good influence on Elena. Wtf come on! Katherine looks like Tatia. I also love Elijah, Klaus, and Rebecca despite there characters flaws they have a noble aspect to them! Yep, Kol was the GOOD guy in this scenario, trying to save the world from having hell brought down upon it (in the form of EVERY SUPERNATURAL MONSTER WHO HAS EVER LIVED AND HAS A DAMNED GOOD REASON TO BE PISSED OFF). And then Elena tries to kill Caroline in the later seasons! Hayley nah, I never really cared for her, sorry. How are people just okay with that? Because strangely every person who has ever told me that Elena is annoying tends to whine on about other things in their lives as well. The way Elena is treating Damon is shameful..its ALL about Stefan, yet she expects Damon to just sit back and take it. Stefan was forced to sacrifice everything to save his life, and, here he is trying to steal the love of his life. I hope she doesnt wake up! That maybe they arent so different after all. =P. In fact, in his flashbacks, he seems entirely different. Elena has never once claimed to be perfect. I even wrote about that at length here: https://prettyandwittyandbright.wordpress.com/2014/09/09/on-tv-everything-wrong-with-the-cws-teen-oriented-programming/. i had wish stefen just gave up on her. He wasnt being hurt in the cellar just weakened Plus if you keep track thousands is still a lot more than Damon or Jeremys or Elenas life, I just found your blog elena was ok from the begining of the series then she turned into a vampire and became so so annoying they destroyed the series cos of this, Honestly I think they make Elena like a god (if you believe in gods i dont judge). THAT was a heroine. But no, Elena wanted the cure (and didnt) and for Damon to be free of compulsion (why cant another Original compel compulsion off? I don't own the Vampire Diaries. The scene when she dropped Carolyn during the pep rally, Yikes! Heres the thing: when you kill off characters and make me feel sad, then BRING THEM back, why should I care when you do it a second time? Yes, Stefan has done some selfish things and his actions are unjustifiable but he still made amends for what he has done. And isnt weird that with all the fans rooting for bamon this is one of the only relationships that hadnt taken place but Elena and Matt did. Anyone celebrating? Bonnie has to hold this guilt for the rest of her life knowing that she is the reason that elena is lying in a coffin! A collection of random fandoms and short vignettes based on the prompt for clytemnestras"any, (I'm thinking doppelgangers, I'm thinking superhero successors, I'm thinking parallels and repeated girls), identity porn. Re-write of Season 4. I really just had to get that off my chest. I am just getting to season 3 and I feel so annoyed with her that I wish they would just do away with her character. But I have to say, Elena really reminds me of a Bella rather than a Buffy, and so I think its silly to proclaim shes a giant hero on the show. title take from the song Till Forever Falls Apart by Ashe and FINNEAS. Also, the Defan love has been awesome. I want to reach through the screen and slap her a thousand times. Buffy the Vampire Slayer did it better between Angel and Spike. OOOOOh, and should I even start with Silas?? Just saying everyone is always talking about Elena no one cares how Bonnie countless sly literally countlessly saved her life not just for Elena but for EVERY main character on the show. Its the writers of the show! When Damon turned her humanity off she acts like a freaking rebellious kid. Katherine, knowing a little something about nightmares, chooses to comfort her. Killing Rebekahs lovers? it was so peed off about that btw. So, they basically killed off both main male characters just to shock the SE/DE fans and bring them back so the SE/DE fans are happy and keep watching. Now she wins. So yeah, around and around we go. Poor Bonnie has been mistreated from the start; she gives and gives and gets nothing in return. Elena kisses Damon not once, but TWICE. the only difference is Katherine doesnt try and act like a perfect innocent angel. Shes an annoying hypocrite that expects everyone to like her because Steffen has made it all about her. If she wasnt in the show and creating all this ridiculous drama (thats all about her) the show would actually be pretty good. He certainly abused her. I may stay with TO, but well see. I really didnt like Tyler in the first season. She also only thinks about herself I just wish both Salvatore brothers dropped her seriously. Also that time when Stefan slept with Katherine, she was like Why would you do that? and Stefan totally was like And you slept with Damon, you have a lot to say about that right? I hate her! You make a ridiculous grand statement like What if theres someone out there? as if this way of thinking is any different from the entire series. And that is not Elenas fault. LOL) in TVD Season 7 is hated and they even called HER a serial killer. Trouble looms near and caution disappears into the void when news of Klaus Mikaelson has been tamed. Get a grip. Sometimes I get the feeling like the writers are running out of ideas. Like she got no romantic interests other than Jeremy and her step brother. She has all the power now. She catches it though, the same moment that Elena does, and then her mouth twists slightly and it's nothing like a smile. Her mind was clouded. It was premeditated and unnecessary, because a) Klaus was taking care of it, b) Elijah could have taken care of it (Kol actually respected and feared Elijah, I think), and c) as you pointed out, Rebekah could have helped them.